I know she will be okay. I know god will be holding her hand and guiding her through this heart surgery. I know she is strong......she is the strongest person i know. And i can't believe SHE IS MINE! I made this AMAZING LITTLE ANGEL ON EARTH!

Even though i know in my heart she will be okay.

I am still feeling sad.

Im sad that these next couple of days she is recovering from surgery i wont be able to see her smile and giggle as i tell her good morning like i do every morning when she wakes up. Im sad for her and her older sister Layla. That they have to be separated from each other. They absolutely adore each other.

 Im just sad right now over this whole situation. 

My heart feels heavy. 

2 DAYS LEFT

Until i will feel my heart being ripped from my body........the emotions you feel when you hand over your baby for surgery is just overwhelming. My anxiety is at the highest point its been at for awhile. Throughout the day i am trying to hold back my tears. All of this is seriously so hard for me because she looks so normal. She acts like nothing is wrong with her. To have to put her through another surgery is just breaking my heart. I find myself throwing one of those TERRIBLE 2's tantrums. Im angry,sad, and just very upset. THIS IS NOT FAIR! REALLY IT ISN'T!

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STRENGTH --- I don't have one inch of it in my body today. I woke up crying...no i wasn't just crying i was bawling my eyes out. I finally broke down. I must of been crying in my sleep because when i woke up tears were falling down and i was out of breath. I don't know what i was dreaming about. So i don't really know what triggered this feeling of weakness.
Yesterday me and my dad took Emery to her appointment in LA. We have started getting her ready for her Glenn surgery. She had an EKG and X-RAY  done like i said.She had blood drawn from her because she was recently sick.Dr.Kallin said if anything showed up he would not do the surgery but most likely since it was weeks ago he doesn't think anything will show up so we don't have to worry. He had went through the procedure with us. He went through what a normal heart looks like and how it functions. Then he went on to explain what her heart looks like and how it functions. I sighed consent forms. We all laughed and said it was better this time around since i wasn't crying my eyes out. I was so strong through the whole thing. When i came home i had finally felt a sense of peace. I felt and knew everything was going to be okay. I even told myself "hey maybe this is going to be easy this time around" ..........BOY WAS I WRONG!
This isn't easy. Crying in my sleep and waking up to this feeling of weakness. This isn't going to be easy. How did i trick myself into thinking THIS WOULD BE EASY......Tricking myself into thinking I MIGHT.....be strong!
I AM SAD TODAY.
As the days get closer to Emery's surgery date..........i am feeling defeated once again. Im scared. Scared of the unknown. Having no control over this situation. I love my daughter so much. My heart hurts. I wish i could go through all of this for her...I seriously would do ANYTHING to go through all of this for her.

HAVE LEARNED SO MUCH

A year ago i had no idea what CHD was about. I had no idea that baby's ALL over the world are suffering and losing there life to this disease. I thought only old people had heart problems, but i didn't know a baby could be born with many heart defects. I DIDN'T KNOW ANYTHING.
I am so proud of myself. PROUD of what my daughter has taught me. A year ago if you asked me what kind of heart defect my daughter had i wasn't able to tell you. NOW i am able to explain to you perfectly what's wrong with her. Before all this... I hated the medical field, never understood why and how they are able to do what they do. Now i have a whole new prospective on it. I appreciate everyone in the medical field and look at them in a whole new way. Instead of ewwwing the stuff they do i am in complete amazement. So glad we have people to save Emery's life thanks to the knowledge they have. I am so glad we have surgeons,doctors, and nurses that gave up 8 - 20 years of their life to learn how to save life's. ALTHOUGH we have no cure for CHD i am thankful for the knowledge these people have. Thankful that these medical teams decided to specialist in helping kids with CHD. And for them trying to find a cure for it.

GOT THE CALL

We have a meeting with her surgeon on feb. 9th
*He will be going through what he will be doing on surgery day. Either going in the heart or just operating outside of the heart. We will also be sighing consent forms. She will have an ECHO done, as well as an X-RAY

Pre Op. will be on feb.21
* check-in at children hospital in LA. They will be doing a physical on her. Taking blood from her and testing it.

OPERATION DAY FEB.22 Is Emery's surgery day.
* She will be having the GLENN procedure done. It will be a 6 hour surgery. After one hour of being out and once she is stable we will be able to see her and hang out with her.


How am i feeling about all this?
Well i am a wreck. of course. I'm super nervious,...scared, excited.
Ya im excited can you believe it!lol I'm excited because we will be able to have a break away from hospitals. and no more surgery's until she is 3. it will just be nice not having to worry when the next one will be.

*Well like i said i wont be keeping daily and hourly updates on here i will be on her FB at Emerysheart.you can click on the link below.
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Emerys-Heart/313601618668448

STILL WAITING....but this is what emery has been up to

Yup....still waiting for the phone call. I did get a phone call from her cardiologist on monday saying that i should be getting the call very soon if not later that day it would be sometime in the week. So here i am waiting, im sure they will call fri...... or when i least expecting it.

Emery has been really talkative.I swear she says mamma! Emery and her sister totally have conversations with each other. I haven't caught it on video yet but i will soon. It is so funny. It is just so cute how much they  love each other. They always look like they can't wait to be able to play with each other. Emery's now eating baby cerial and baby food. I am always surprised at how much that lil tummy of hers can handle eating. She loves apples, carrots, cerial.....she hates bananas. We just got her a bumbo and she loves it. I plan on taking it with us to the hospital cause she does not like to be laying down. I NEED to go shopping for Emery and get her some clothes she can wear in the hospital. He first surgery i hated seeing her with nothing on her. they always had to put the heater on her and poor baby's face would be red like a tomato lol ......But i didnt now what to expect and i didnt know what we would be able to take and give to her for her hospital stay. But this time im so prepared to help my baby feel like she is at home. :)

P.S for all who want to get daily updates on Emery when she is in the hospital please join us on her facebook page Emerys Heart http://www.facebook.com/pages/Emerys-Heart/313601618668448?sk=wall

HAPPY NEW YEARS!

I just know this year is going to be better for me and my family. goodbye 2011 and HELLO 2012. I am going to try and be a stronger person. I am going to try not to stress about the little things and start enjoying the little things again. I have my family with me and that's all that should matter. so ready for the new years and the change it brings......HELLO TO MY NEW LIFE. MY NEW NORMAL.